Blended families: the first year
Small steps that help a new family settle.
Go slowly
New relationships between step-parents and children take time, often years. Let them develop at the child’s pace.
Keep the parent in charge
In the early stages, discipline usually works best coming from the biological parent, with the step-parent building a warm relationship first.
Protect one-on-one time
Children still need time alone with each parent. Keep some old routines and traditions alongside new ones.
Get support
Relationships Australia and Family Relationship Advice Line (1800 050 321) offer support for separated and blended families.
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